I am currently completing the a&a application. I am unsure about a couple of things: My grandmother is 87 and needs 24/7 care due to memory loss and dementia. Currently, my mother and I are taking turns staying with her. We have found a WONDERFUL assisted living community for her. The monthly cost is 2900.00. Her monthly income is 1250.00 SS and small pension. Bank accounts total 15,000. No other resources except for her home. They indicated on the form not to include the home. Is this correct? Expenses: I included medicare deduction, supplement insurance monthly amount, medication cost (got a print out from the pharmacy) yearly averages 3800.00. I did not include any other expenses, as my mother and I do not charge her. I need to get the doctor statement completed. Do I include the cost for the assisted living if she has not moved there at this time? I also include the 7000.00 out of pocket funeral expense for my grandfather last July. I have the marriage certificate, death certifcate, discharge papers, medication expense, and will have dr statement. I completed the application and my grandmother signed. Am I missing anything? Also my grandfather did not receive a pension from the VA, but did receive services from the local client. Do I INCLUDE this as a VA claim? Where in TN do I submit the claim? Thanks so much!