Hello Everyone, A quick question: My husband and I are caregivers for my father-n-law and has been for OVER 4 years along with assistance from others we pay to help assist my father-n-law. I am the primary person to make sure his needs are met and my father-n-law and husband has know objection to me being appointed the fiduciary. The same as another post I read, as well my father-n-law was found by VA as incompetence. We are fine with the VA decision and responded to them that we have no issue with the VA finding of incompetence and wish to proceed with the appointment of a fiduciary. We responded to VA form #21-4138 and on that same form requested that I be appointed as fiduciary with the understanding that I must be interviewed prior to that appointment and would appreciate such an interview be scheduled as soon as possible. What type of questions will I be asked or my father-n-law will be asked in the interview. We are honest people but it would be nice to know what to expect. Also, how do I find out what his rating was for A&A because it was not stated in the letter that VA sent. I responded on VA Form #21-4138 regarding being fine with the incompentence rating and requested to be the fiduciaruy. Do I make a request in a separate letter to be fiduciary for my father-n-law? Also, I just found this website by googling 2 weeks ago. I wish I knew over a year ago about this site too. However, I am glad that I found it and is very thankful. I will also send donations and support this site. God Bless the owner and Administrators for this site. Thank you and I look forward to a response.