My mother in law is a widow of a WWII vet. She must be attended 24 hours a day. Her adult daughters take turns caring for her, and they also have a nurse that helps out 20 hours a week. They need help, and would like to have a nurse come to care for her more hours. In order to show expenses that exceed income it seems my mother in law must pay them for caring for her. The problem is that she does not have money to pay them. How can we get the assistance to bring someone in to help, if we have to show we are paying them already to get the pension in the first place?