I'm a Vietnam Vet and my father is WWII Ex-POW 88 years old with a 90% disability but receives 100%. The VA Hospital he goes to held him and called myself and sister telling us he has dementia and must be placed in a facility the VA will pay for. Two weeks after he entered that facility I had a call from a VA Social Worker who spoke with my father. She said he can shave, shower, and eat on his own so he doesn't fit the criteria to stay at that facility. She said we would have to find a place for him and he would have to be responsible for the costs. He can't remember our names and is confused most of the time. Any help or clarifications you can give would be more than appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this.