We applied for A&A about two years ago for my then 94 year old Dad and have been getting the run around since then. My stepmom has been caring for him at home but she is now 85 and is not in good health. From everything I have researched, HE should qualify. I'm not completely sure of my stepmom's assets but she is the one who actually applied and said they told her he was TOO OLD. They have enough income (SS) to make ends meet but for about a year now we (the children) have been paying 3 part time in home caregivers out of our pocket at the cost of about $600 per week. Can you help me figure this out? Is he really TOO OLD to get benefits?