My father-in-law died in 2006. My mother-in-law was able to stay home until February 2009. She had a fall and now is in a nursing home in a wheel chair. We have files for VA Spousal assistance since that time. We have send in numerous filings, they keep sending it back saying that it is not complete. We went to our local VA Center and they helped us fill it out and it was still sent back. I am loosing my patience and do not know what to do. She can not get medicaid at this time and we are running out of money. Please, someone tell me what I can do! ???