My uncle has recently fallen ill. (Heart attack, Dementia, Mild stroke) He's in a board and care. He owns a home probably worth 250,000. We are running out of money to care for him. Should we sell the home and skip applying for va benefits A&A ? Reading this website it sounds very discouraging. We (my sister) and I need some help in what to do next. He is 93 and is on hospice. I thought about a equity line of credit for the time being. I have financial DOA.