This is my first time posting and I am looking for help to help my mother. My mother has been diagnosed with Alzheimer and I need to get her into a assisted living or a memory center. I was told to apply for Aid and Attendance to get help,is there a list of facilities for assisted living and or memory centers that are part of Aid and Attendance benefits? My mother receives my father social security and that is it,I'm applying for Veteran death benefits also, can she receive both benefits? Or is it like social security where we had too chose one over the other? The base pay for either facility is $4500 a month , it does cover everything except laundry.I need to make sure I am on the correct path.