To sign up for direct deposit, go to Godirect.gov. It works really well.
I also need an answer - where it asks if they are in a nursing home, do we put NO because they are in assisted living:
Yes there is. Go to VA form 24-0296 to complete a Direct Deposit Enrollment form. I did it for my dad. It will take about 2 months to process.
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