We filled out a statement of care form with the original paperwork. The form I'm trying to find had Attendant Affidavit across the top and was for my son to fill out as a caregiver. He had to state his name, address, amount paid and date he was hired as a caregiver. Below that were boxes for him to check off for the things he did. At the bottom my husband had to sign it also. In the cover letter they asked to please complete and return the enclosed VA Attendant Affidavit. I can't find this form anywhere. They were sent all receipts and canceled checks dating back to May 2006. I'm going to assume they just wanted a statement directly from my son that he actually did provide the care. I'm now just in a wait and see mode........ At the end of the year my son will be moving to another state and I'm going to be my husbands full time caregiver again so just wanted to have this form handy in case I needed it.
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