Just starting the A&A application process for my mother-in-law, the surviving spouse of a Vietnam veteran who is now in assisted living. This site has been EXTREMELY useful in explaining the details. I intend to mail her VA Form 21-0966 off this week. My wife and I intend to put our address on the 21-0966 so we can handle the correspondence from the VA. Should we use the same address on VA Form 21-534EZ? I'm concerned that this doesn't match her actual residence address at the assisted living facility. But because she has some dementia, I don't want her attempting to handle the correspondence. On VA Form 21-534EZ, Section X, Block 40, Medical and other unreimbursed expenses: I intend to include her Medicare deductions, assisted living costs, and prescription drug co-pays. Can I just put the total for the year, or do I have to list every monthly payment? If I use the total cost of each for the year, what do I put in the Date Paid column? Thanks in advance for any response. I will post as we go concerning my experiences with this application.