I am my mothers caretaker. She lives with me. My mother has Dementia and is 80 yrs old. She needs assistance with everything. My mother already receives Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) of $1067.00 monthly due to my fathers death after military retirement. Death was military related. She also receives $906.00 monthly from Social Security. She has no other assets. I was talking to a VA Counsler about another unrelated problem when he told me she might qualify for additional money through Aid and Attendance since my dad was in the military during Veitnam. He mailed me the Aid and Attendance form for her doctor to fill out. He didn't send any instructions or where to mail it back to or if anything else is required. Nothing.The doctor has filled out the form basically stating she needs help with everything and pretty much, she meets all the qualifications. My questions. What now? Am I going in the right direction? Where do I mail it to? Do I need anything else to go with it? Help!