My Dad has Alzheimer's. He has been recieving A&A benefits since September. I am his caregiver, and my dad qualifies for nearly the full amount because he needs full time care. If you have children you can pay them to be caregivers or hire someone else. This would allow you to keep your job. If your husband qualifies for the full benefit, you can then pay someone $2000 monthly for his care. Since homecare agencies charge a lot more for their service, I suggest you hire family or someone you can trust.