I am 100% service connected disabled, now on Hospice, my wife and I have been in the hospital most of the year on and off and now have a lot of bills to catch up with including electric which we need for medical equipment. I was working with Vets Center but its 25 miles away and now I'm stuck at home. Can both my wife and I get A&A at the same time? How can I arrange for her to get it after I die? We are both in our 50s and live at home. We both need help with most things and a buddy has moved in to take care of him. Someone at the VA hospital said there is a VA benefit to pay him to care for us but we can't find anything. Does anyone know about these things? A social worker is helping me, you can contact her at ncurrie@overlookvna if you can't answer my questions here. Thanks. G.