thank you for all your guidance.
I will try and get "through" to someone that has a clue... but when you call it seems like all they say is it is pending ... I am sooo tired of all this.
THe situation my husband is in physically and mentally is hard enough ... the stress of this waiting and run around is so needless in my small opinion. But, you don't want to dare say anything wrong in case the system gets angry with you and puts a big stamp of denied on your file.
It is to the point where he can hardly walk without falling or almost falling. His short term memory is pretty much gone, he says inappropiate things, as well as not being able to remember words for objects. You can have a conversation with him and in five minutes he has forgotten it and you have the same conversation again and again.... you give him his meds and as soon as he swallows them he asks you if he has taken them. His pain from his neuropathy is horribe, he takes 15 pain meds daily alone including methadone.
My heart breaks for this man, my husband and best friend. Why can't they read the paper work call the dr even. hmmm maybe someone from the determination office needs to come and spend a week with some of these vets and see how it really is...?? I know there is more then one file on their desk, but, come on. OK sorry for the vent... time to count my blessing and remember my cup is half full.

thank you for everything.
hugs Anne