Asset Qualification

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Can anyone help with qualification with assets.  I have read $80,000.00 (max) as a guideline.  On the application 21-526 they ask for veterans net worth and spouses net worth.  All my in laws accounts are joint.  How do you determine what belongs to verteran (my father in law) and what belongs to my mother in law.  Do I just 1/2 everything?  Are they very strict on the $80,000?   In laws have a combined $110,000 but right now they are spending $1,300 a week for home care for my father in law.